I know I probably come across as super confident and outgoing (just let me have that), but in reality I can be a pretty shy guy – just ask Isabelle how long it took me to ask her out and how nervous I was doing it. So I understand the aspects of sex cams that might make a shy guy hesitant to try it. When there’s a real girl, live on cam, talking to you, it can be nerve racking and intimidating for us shy dudes. But it doesn’t have to be.
Join a Group Show and Build Confidence
If you haven’t visited a live cam site lately, you may not be aware of group shows. While the general perception is that you’re having a one-on-one chat with a girl who gets naked for you, there have been a lot of innovations over the years, one of which is group shows, also known as Gold Shows on sites such as Rabbits Cams.
Instead of it just being you and the girl, it’s you, the girl and a bunch of other people. The performer will indicate the length of the show and what she’ll do and then people can decide to give her money and/or tokens to help her reach her goal. When it’s reached, everyone who donated gets to watch.
Other Members Help Take the Pressure Off
Now, because the show is being viewed by a bunch of people, there are often multiple members chatting at the same time trying to get the model’s attention. When I first started using live cam sites, I found this to be a great way to enjoy a babe on cam, but not feel the intimidation of a one-on-one experience. Think of it like going to a strip club and sitting around the main stage watching a girl dance and get naked compared to getting a private lap dance in the champagne room.
On a side note, Gold Shows often provide great value. You get a full show for only a few bucks as opposed to the per-minute price structure of a private or exclusive chat with the same girl.
Try a Private Chat When You’re Ready
Private chats might seem intimidating at first, but if you use these free, group and teledildonic experiences to get comfortable, then I highly suggest you go for it and take a babe private. Also, know that you aren’t the only shy guy she’s ever talked to.
Webcam performers are used to it and the good ones will know how to make you feel super comfortable with the experience and show you an incredible time. Most of these girls have dealt with plenty of aggressive jerks who show them very little respect. So, a nice, shy guy who appreciates them like we do is something they will appreciate as well.